Nothing at all

"If you can't say something good, say nothing at all."  Here it is in our beloved Prophet's words.

Narrated Abu Huraira:  Allah's Apostle said, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should talk what is good or keep quiet, and whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should not hurt (or insult) his neighbor..."  Sahih Bukhari: Volume 8, Book 76, Number 482. 

What shall we do if we are in a situation where others are backbiting?  We have to first  remember Allah, and have them do so as well by advising them nicely.  If this does not work, we must leave, because sitting there and listening is as bad as doing the deed.  For the scholars agree that a person who is in attendance when a sin is being committed is as guilty as the ones who are committing the sin.  Your presence is a kind of approval of the deed.  If your friends are angry with you for not participating in their sins, they are not really friends.  Why would they want to harm you? Your deen? or hurt your chances to get to Paradise?  Also, remember in doing so, you are protecting the honor of your brother or sister, and look to the reward of doing so: 

O Allah! Guard our tongues.
O Allah! Guard our actions.
O Allah! Forgive us our sins against You and ease the hearts of those we have harmed so that they too will forgive us.
Ameen...

Life is too short!

 
Lately, I've been thinking a lot...
I spent my time just thinking...thinking....& thinking
But too many things running inside my mind
And it looks like something went wrong, yet I can't determined what is it....

So i made up my mind to seek for an answers.....
Alhamdulillah ALLAH opened the doors for me & now I realized what I was missing....
Thank you ALLAH for all the things that you've done
You guided me from all the ways that were wrong

Now I realize that the key to happiness is forgiveness ...
Life is really too short to hold grudges against each other.
We must forgive otherwise Allah will not forgive us.
So, forgive and forget then move forward in your life....

Being a better person is a process. No matter how good someone is, it can't be done overnight.
So the important thing is that I grow every day.
Make growing a habit and I will see significant progress when I look back.
That's what I am going to do!
I’m lucky that now I've met a lot of positive people that encourage me to grow.
They act as a source of energy and inspiration for me.

I should make room for growth in my mind.
Believe in myself that I can grow & can make the changes that I want.
I won’t limit myself again and aim to be the best that I can be.
But I won't expect too much, cause I might get disappointed and discouraged.
It takes time to grow...& the most important thing is not to repeat the mistakes that I have made!

I must bear in mind that past is a history, present is what I have & future is what I am unsure of
So, just forget the past, live for the present & hope for the future!

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Oh Allah, please forgive me for all of the bad that I've done.
You are so Merciful and kind, please forgive me, and help me stay away from all that's wrong.
It's so hard for me, and I'm so weak but You are the Strong.
Please increase me in sincerity.
Oh Allah, make it easy for me to accept all that You have decreed for me, and please make it easy for me to turn to You during trials and difficulties.
Let these difficult moments of my life make me a stronger Muslim and more sincere to You.
Amin.....

Iman Is With Those Who Seek It...I LOVE ALLAH!

Buatmu Yang Bergelar Sahabatku...

Tuhan

Andai aku telah melukakan hatinya

Sembuhkanlah agar dia tidak merana

Kerana aku tidak bisa

Melihat dia berduka

Tuhan

Kiranya dia menghamparkan kasih buatku

Dan aku tidak berupaya menghamparkan kasihku buatnya

Kurniakan dia selautan kasih yang lebih baik

Bagi menggantikan kasihku

Tuhan

Aku berdoa untuk kebahagiaan dia

Kerana sesungguhnya aku amat mengasihi 

Setiap insan yang bergelar sahabat dalam hidupku

Wahai Tuhan Yang Maha Pengasih

Perkenankanlah doa seorang sahabat ini…..

Amin

Trusted true friendships never makes others down. It helps a lot to make friends to come up from the situation. Friendships never expect anything in return for all its offering. It saves life without looking into situation. When there is a friend with us we feel secure, happy, huge support, and comfortable which you can't get from others.

Sahabat
Dalam kabut ku tercari-cari cahaya
Akhirnya ku temui sinar ceria diraut wajahmu
Andainya alam ini mampu berkata-kata
Pastilah pujian buat dirimu
Di waktu itu akulah yg bertuah
Punya sahabat sepertimu
Sahabat
Kau bimbing la ku menuju cahaya ilahi
Sahabat
Aku lemah mangharungi ranjau dunia
Sahabat
Aku ingin seperti mu dalam ketenangan
Menghadapi hidup ini
Sahabat ku bersyukur kerna mengenali dirimu
Ku harap moga kitakan bersama
Harungi segala suka duka
Moga kejayaan milik kita
Agar hidup menuju mulia

Untukmu – Durani